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My cousin Noel, wife Millet and their new baby

Noel, Millet and Baby Gaele

It's been awhile since this cousin of mine and I heard from each other. There was a cloud of unwanted estrangement due to some "family issues" early on in our lives. Although we the younger ones at the time were not directly involved, it was normal that on family matters  (father's side), everyone had the "obligation"  to take sides.

But all of that's gone now. Perhaps, my father's death allowed the initial re-connection. I am sincerely happy that we are somehow linked again. Harmony is such an invigorating feeling.

Note: I am not very sure of the baby's name.


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